Transgender
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How to Heal Your Inner Child When All You Remember is Trauma
“I’m not even sure I have any happy memories. Does that mean this inner child stuff isn’t for me?”
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Why I’m No Longer Striving For My Best, Highest, or ‘Healed’ Self
We don’t have to compensate anymore for who we became to survive.
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How to Stop People-Pleasing: 5 Ways I’m Unlearning My Fawn Response
As the kids say, some folks will just have to stay mad.
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Dear Body: A peace treaty with my queer, trans, and recovering body.
I’m breathless now, looking back at all the ways you would not back down from survival.
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When they misgendered you at your memorial
“You never lived to see the day when your life didn’t require a disclaimer — instead, your death now required one, too.”
