Reflections
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I’m Giving My Eating Disorder Away
“I approached connection the same way I did food: Trying to get by with as little as possible.”
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People-Pleasing Can Be a Trauma Response, ‘Fawning’ — Here’s How to Recognize It
“I avoided those relationships where love was free and easy. Because it didn’t feel earned, so I didn’t feel worthy.”
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Dear Body: A peace treaty with my queer, trans, and recovering body.
I’m breathless now, looking back at all the ways you would not back down from survival.
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7 (Totally Wrong) Reasons I Didn’t Think I Had An Eating Disorder
Eating disorders are built on a house of lies, but if it’s the only house you’ve ever lived in, you just won’t see it that way.
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I preached body positivity — and sunk deeper into my eating disorder at the same time.
I used my proximity to body positive spaces to disregard the very idea that I needed help — and I’m paying the price physically, mentally, and emotionally now.
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Sometimes I Wonder How Many Of Us He Hurt
In truth, his soul was hollowed out long before he found us.