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transgender

No, Cis People, Being Trans Is Not a Self-Esteem Issue

November 9, 2017 Sam Dylan Finch 5 Comments

“I get it! Sometimes I hate my body too."

LGBTQIA/transgender

Cis ‘Allies,’ You Probably Think This Work is About You

June 22, 2017August 11, 2017 Sam Dylan Finch 11 Comments

Cis people, you're breaking my heart. But that's what I get for putting it on loan, right?

transgender

6 Signs That You Might Not Really Respect Your Transgender Loved One

May 29, 2017August 11, 2017 Sam Dylan Finch 26 Comments

“You can start hormones, but please don’t get surgery.”

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Sam Dylan Finch. I’m a writer and positive psychology practitioner that’s passionate about queer joy — with none of the self-helpy bullsh*t. I wrote that thing about people-pleasing that you showed your therapist. I’m much weirder in real life.  ✨ He/they. More?

 

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