This community taught me not only what toxic masculinity demands of men and masculine people, but also the possibilities that exist outside of it.

Talking mental health with Sam Dylan Finch.
This community taught me not only what toxic masculinity demands of men and masculine people, but also the possibilities that exist outside of it.
“It’s almost like someone’s gender has no bearing on my life,” another cis resident complained.
This is your "this sucks, why does this suck, why didn't anyone tell me that this would suck?" blog entry.
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