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Mental Health

7 Signs That Online Therapy Might Be Right For You

October 15, 2017January 1, 2019 Sam Dylan Finch 9 Comments

Somehow, in just a couple of weeks, I'd disclosed more to my online therapist than I had with my previous therapist that I'd worked with for over a year.

Mental Health

4 Ways Mentally Ill People Are Blamed For Their Struggles

October 10, 2017 Sam Dylan Finch 15 Comments

We don’t deserve this. And we certainly didn’t ask for it.

Mental Health

My Least Favorite Obsession: Am I Making My Mental Illness Up?

September 26, 2017September 26, 2017 Sam Dylan Finch 27 Comments

It's not logical... but OCD isn't logical, either.

Mental Health

5 Ways to Lovingly Support Someone With C-PTSD

September 14, 2017 Sam Dylan Finch 10 Comments

It can be as simple as noticing. As simple as validating us. As simple as saying, “I believe you.”

Mental Health

Mental Illness Taught Me to Fear Being Alone. Here’s What I Do to Cope.

September 13, 2017September 14, 2017 Sam Dylan Finch 10 Comments

"This won't be so hard," I tell myself. "It might even be fun." But the second night alone, I'm having a full-blown panic attack.

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What I Wish My Loved Ones Understood About Being Suicidal

September 10, 2017June 8, 2018 Sam Dylan Finch 8 Comments

You may not understand my pain, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t valid.

Mental Health

My Beautiful, Borderline Mind

September 6, 2017January 1, 2019 Sam Dylan Finch 11 Comments

The self-hating borderline is the one that the world loves the most. It's an uncomfortable truth, then, when I tell people that I don't hate myself.

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Mental Health

7 Things I Wish People Hadn’t Said After My Psychiatric Hospitalization

September 1, 2017 Sam Dylan Finch 13 Comments

I walked away feeling like I had to carry this burden alone.

Mental Health

7 Signs Your Psychiatrist Is a Keeper

August 24, 2017August 24, 2017 Sam Dylan Finch 8 Comments

“You defer to me a lot,” he pointed out, laughing. “You’re allowed to have an opinion.”

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Am I ‘Traumatized Enough’ For a Complex PTSD Diagnosis?

August 20, 2017 Sam Dylan Finch 26 Comments

If trauma is affecting your mental health, you deserve compassion, care, and support. Full stop.

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Sam Dylan Finch. I’m a writer and positive psychology practitioner that’s passionate about queer joy — with none of the self-helpy bullsh*t. I wrote that thing about people-pleasing that you showed your therapist. I’m much weirder in real life.  ✨ He/they. More?

 

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Almost daily, I get messages like these. Asking me if life with a mental illness will always be this hard. I don’t know your story — but I can tell you mine.
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